Marshall Online #13:
When the profile says “No Drama”
This we see often. There are three things I think it means and I think it is indicated by what he says.
If he says “No Drama” or the like. This is a statement that should be read as a command. He is telling you to never give him any argument or hassle. So keep in mind any dating, sex dates etc are on his terms, and they can change as he wills. And when you question him on it, he tells you that you are giving him drama and makes you out to be the bad guy. Drop him, he’s the source of the drama.
If he says he is “drama free and expects the same.” Runaway! He is not drama free, and he doesn’t understand why there is always drama around him: dude you are the common denominator. He is the source of the drama and enjoys it. Getting together with this guy will be filled with drama, count on it.
If he says “No Drama”. This could also reveal his past relationships. He could have just gotten out of a relationship that was filled with drama and just is shell shocked about it. I think if that is the case, you’ll see him change his profile after a time, as he learns that drama isn’t the norm for most men. If you start chatting with him, he may tell you about it, or give you some hints.
We all want to live our lives free from stress and drama. However, we are talking about matters of sex and love, and there is no way these will go without drama from time to time. But, I think there are people who make the drama (I think I’m guilty of this) and create it when it need not be. When a person like this meets someone who will not put up with the drama, their relationship will be short. But when two drama men meet, then they feed off of each other and blame each other for being the one with drama. Then post on their profile: No drama.
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